Spiritual Strength

Through this struggle I have spent so much time in self reflection. Learning more about mindfulness (something I had NEVER even heard of before last August) and really trying to strengthen my personal spiritual beliefs and relationship. The mindfulness part I am still working on - don't asked me for a definition off the top of my head just yet.
I consider myself a Christian. I believe that Jesus died for our sins. At them same time perhaps I am unique, I believe we can learn a lot from other spiritual beliefs. More than I can count I have been touched and lead to prayer and deep thought by teachings from the Dahli Lama and  Buddha just as examples. I am not party of a church. I have many personal reasons. Perhaps them easiest for me is that for me my spiritual journey and relationship with a higher power is mine. I choose to not feel required to follow a groups rules. That is a very personal decision for each individual.
God has provided me with support, strength, motivation, love and so much more from so many sources. It has been amazing. Coming out of the hospital in August he provided a  doctor who I truly credit with my life. He is of the Sikh religion. He is peaceful, smart, compassionate, empathetic, strong in ways no other doctor and few people I have ever met. He cares about his patients as a whole person. He immediately not only was treating me with traditional Western medicine but also a variety of time tested Eastern techniques including private yoga sessions to address my health issues (not fitness as we usually associate). Special types of breathing, transfer of relaxation so many amazing spiritual healing connections. I don't know them words to explain this blessed experience.
Acupuncture has been a massive part of not only my weekly treatment but instrumental in my current diagnosis, pain relief, nausea treatment, headache treatment, seizure treatment, emotional balance -  all limiting the number of medications I have had to take as well as allowing me to become more in touch with my body.
Through all of this I read a book by popular author Dr. Andrew Weill "Spontaneous Happiness". It did such an awesome job bringing so many of my personal experiences into words. He also has a book I learned about in the same book called "Spontaneous Healing". I am just starting to read this. I already can highly recommend both books. I'm not one for self help books and such, but given them challenges I have been facing I found his experiences and explanations inspiring and helpful in so many ways.
So how has this all affected me and my decisions, day to day living... one of my hardest struggles was how do I continue to work with all of these symptoms I am experiencing. The brain fog, slow cognitive function, tremors, severe fatigue, not to mention no longer being able to travel due to the seizures. The list felt never ending and overwhelming. I  prayed for guidance read scripture,  talked with my husband, family, friends, therapist. The guidance didn't touch my heart. I was really stressing. One evening as I was trying to relax and Brett was watching TV a wounded Marine came on, he said Sarah, you'll want to see this. I sat and watched a young Marine that had lost 3 of his four limbs. He proudly wore his uniform and was surrounded by his Marine brothers. As he spoke his pride and strength was undeniable. It wasn't a show for tv, he said he would go again knowing the end result. He had plans for life, he saw this not as the ends of his life but the beginning of a new adventure. In that moment my answer about work was crystal clear. He was my messenger. I will keep working. I will face my challenges head on. I will see this as a new adventure. My struggles are minimal compared to what he is facing AND he would do it again for our freedom, for the very life I am taking for granted.
I am working on remembering that precious lesson every moment of every day. Today I seemed to have lost sight of it. Tomorrow is another day. To all the wounded warriors that find the strength and motivation of the young man I saw that night - I know great things are coming your way. You are true heroes. And to that young man on TV that night - God Bless You!

Wonderful Day

As so many of you are aware, I am aware of vintage clothing, music and much more. Through out this experience I have had had so many wonderful people that mean the world to me - encouraging me to do something with my love for pinup, vintage, thrift shopping, garage selling all of it.

I have successfully set up my etsy account. My new online store via etsy is called Stormy Vintage - of course a play on my pinup name. I am hoping that tomorrow I will be able to begin putting pictures in tomorrow and some items can begin selling. I was blessed enough to feel up to a few garage sales on Friday morning with Brett. I found some amazing vintage patterns, some very vintage style fabric, a handbag and some adorable belts.

Today Correen and I got some time in at a local thrift store. I found some wonderful items. My favorite a late 50's/early 60's shift dress with matching neck scarf. Just adorable. Thanks to both mine and my husbands wonderful parents I was able to gather the inventory that I have collected for the past few years. In addition, I was contacted by a previous publisher with interest of me doing more pinup modeling. Don't forget to check out Pinups and Hot Rods Vol. 1. Perhaps I will participate in future publications. I would love too.

I have also added a widget to my blog - It includes links to anything that I refer to on Amazon. If you use this link I get the opportunity to earn a very little kick back for the reference. Being that I'm not working this could really come in handy. In addition, I spend so much time reading and listening to music - I simply decided I would love to share some of what I am learning with you.

Now the health part of my day. The best news since this nightmare began. I'm not sure if I mentioned it a few weeks ago or not. I decided I would be proactive. After hours of internet research I sent emails to every movement specialist I could find with an email address listed. As you can imagine most of them were return to sender as they were no longer any good. I got a few "I'm not taking new patients". This morning I received a phone call from a Dr. Jerome Lint's office. His staff member told me he is VERY interested in the email I sent (included video's of seizures). He wants to see me immediately. I will see him first thing Thursday!!! No we can see you in 3 weeks. I want to thank God and thank ALL of you that have been praying so much. Please pray that it will go as wonderful.

I luckily still have an appointment October 12 with Dr. Mark Lew at USC. He has an amazing reputation. I am starting to feel hopeful that a diagnosis and perhaps some level of understanding will surface soon. I did go 72 hours without a seizure. Unfortunately last night about midnight I woke up to terrible back pain and within minutes I was seizing. I lasted aout the normal 30 minutes. My back has been terribly sore all day. The other odd symptom I am struggling with the past few days - some edema fairly mild, however extremely painful in my feet and ankles. It doesn't seem to improve much when I stay off my feet - painwise. I have found an amazing product that does help Traumeel. I was introduced to it during my 22 days in the hospital. I can't believe how much it helps. I accidently let myself run out. I miss it so much. Really - anyone with pain even just from a workout. This is it! AND it doesn't smell, and it's not a nasty narcotic/opiate with a ton of terrible side effects.

One thing I did notice today that was rough - the old days not only could I drive myself around to the various thrift stores, I could hit all of them. Today I honestly barely made it through one store. I was exhausted, sore and unable to even enjoy my purchases the end of the day. I ended up sleeping for yours afterwards, taking a very LONG bubble bath with Village Naturals Aches and Pains. listening to my favorite music.

Wonderful reset to say the least - gave me the ability get in set up the Etsy Store. Really got my head in place. Its been quite a scattered day, and my post a bit scattered as well. The best part I feel good today emotionally. The pain is there and difficult, I'm shaking awful becasue I chose to use the laptop, but I got to thrift shop, set up my online store (step one) AND I'm blogging.

I hope you don't mind the Amazon widget. I want to share these wonderful things I have found. I have NO money coming in. Maybe it will work. Please let me know. I don't want to be a sell out. One last thing that is just awesome is a book that reflects some of the things the neurologist staff has been working on with me. Alternative methods of healing. I am loving to drink a chunk of ginger in hot water with a bit of honey. My new morning drink that I am really trying to switch to from coffee - just HOT water and lemon. I feel sooo GOOOD when I do this. Its such minor changes folks. You won't believe it. I just love so far how this book talks about it, just the basics in idiot terms :)

OK my LOVES I must try to go to sleep. Please feedback. Hopefully tomorrow will be as wonderful as today. Hugs to you all that keep me, my family going. Today and my joy would and could not have happened without all of you. We are so blessed.

Acceptance

I have taken up the inclusion of acupuncture therapy and yoga therapy since I left the hospital. Acupuncture brought up something difficult. I don't truly love myself right now. I thought well no SHIT. Am I supposed to lay here and be thankful to my body further LOVE it that I can't do anything that I believed to love just a few months ago? I have been forced to give up running - it may have been a passion for only a year or so - but I loved it. I loved who I was while I was running, I loved how I felt for the hours after it. The activities related to Rockabilly, Pin-up, all of it - can't make plans to go to anything because who knows what will happen  between now and then. Our last planned show I was just getting out of the hospital so guess that one isn't happening. The therapist in her work told me I need to accept myself as I am now. Truly accept it. She further assigned that I call my Grandmother - that I remember having a real conversation with maybe as a child. We have spoken rarely since.

I did as assigned. The next morning at 7 a.m. I called her. I was honest why I was calling her. She told me that it is time I stop trying to impress anyone else - only myself. I've spent my entire life trying to be a protectionist. I've tried to have the best grades, the best job, the best performance. I've even tried with all my heart and soul to apply that brilliance to raising my kids. Guess what you can't be the best mom. They are people that makes them a variable. Nothing I ever do is always going to be right. In fact at the older ages, maybe being a good mom is going to mean being a terrible mom.  My grandmother told me it's time to stop fighting with my own Mom about everything. You know what I realized - I don't even know what that means or how to do it. I asked and she wisely told me I will figure it out.

I received many other thoughts from her. I realize now I should have written it down. Those two items however are enough right now. I don't even know what to do with them. Further taken into thought is that I MUST learn how to accept this me, the current me. I'm no longer independent, I'm no longer the strong alone person I always thought I was. I am quite the opposite in fact. Don't want to hear any of it. I don't want to hear that the job I loved for years isn't an option to return to - it no longer exists. In my mind - if I had just been there (not incapable) I could have solved it. I would have saved what I loved as a career. If I wasn't sick my kids and I would be closer and I wouldn't feel like there is a wedge bigger every day. I would be myself not some warped pain medication intolerable version. If I wasn't so sick my house would be clean (especially if I was home a small fraction of what I am) instead I am doing amazing if I start a new load of laundry. I would be able to be a wife, to my husband in all ways - an equal. Instead, I depend on him for everything. It seems to increase every single day. Now I need a babysitter 24/7 in case I have a seizure. Not only do I have "NOTHING WRONG WITH ME THEY CAN FIND". There are no words to provide a diagnosis.  I'm just supposed to ACCEPT all of this? Really?